Before I became a mother, I had a set of rules for bringing up children..... but now that I have 2 children, I realized you cannot makes rules for stuff u have no clue about..
I don't know if Iam a good mother... I want to be but am I?
Is it normal for a loving mom to scream at her kids... Sometimes I do...
I want them to be prim and proper always but they seldom are....
I want the house to be spic and span.... it never is...their toys are everywhere!!!
I want to give them only healthy stuff...but I find myself spoiling them with chocolates...
I want to play with them but I find myself preoccupied with other stuff like cooking, cleaning, dusting, laundry etc... and by the time Iam free, they are fast asleep...
sometimes I compare... that child is walking quietly behind the mother and why is my child running all around the hyper market?
and at the restaurant, that child is eating properly, why is my 2 yr old throwing the spoon and fork at her brother and dropping all the food
Iam guilty of all this.... this is not the picture I drew years back.... but I guess this is what life is all about... maybe raising a child is not about a set of rules....
All I can do is DO MY BEST..... some things just don't turn out the way I want it to... If it was like that, life would have been too easy!!!!
I don't know if Iam a good mother... I want to be but am I?
Is it normal for a loving mom to scream at her kids... Sometimes I do...
I want them to be prim and proper always but they seldom are....
I want the house to be spic and span.... it never is...their toys are everywhere!!!
I want to give them only healthy stuff...but I find myself spoiling them with chocolates...
I want to play with them but I find myself preoccupied with other stuff like cooking, cleaning, dusting, laundry etc... and by the time Iam free, they are fast asleep...
sometimes I compare... that child is walking quietly behind the mother and why is my child running all around the hyper market?
and at the restaurant, that child is eating properly, why is my 2 yr old throwing the spoon and fork at her brother and dropping all the food
Iam guilty of all this.... this is not the picture I drew years back.... but I guess this is what life is all about... maybe raising a child is not about a set of rules....
All I can do is DO MY BEST..... some things just don't turn out the way I want it to... If it was like that, life would have been too easy!!!!
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